LGBTQ+ Pride Month Blog 2023 – Fighting the Increasing Hate

Even though I did not find Pride items in my local Walmart, I could order them and get them delivered there.

Every June, LGBTQ+ Pride Month is now celebrated worldwide, commemorating the 1969 Stonewall Rebellion which is often considered the beginning of the modern LGBTQ-rights movement. So much progress has been made in the ensuing decades since 1969 with many more lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer people being able to live out and proud lives.


There are still many places around the world, particularly in Asia and Africa where LGBTQ people are severely persecuted, and now in the United States there is a mounting of outward hate, violence and discrimination of LGBTQ+ people, often led by political leaders trying to divide Americans against each other for political gain and power.


On May 24, I read this disturbing news piece from Associated Press titled “Target pulls some LGBTQ+ merchandise from stores ahead of June Pride month after threats to workers.” The article begins, “Target is removing certain items from its stores and making other changes to its LGBTQ+ merchandise nationwide ahead of Pride month, after an intense backlash from some customers including violent confrontations with its workers.”

One of the cute Pride Month books Walmart is selling

Many other companies (like Walmart) support LGBTQ+Pride month with merchandise.  Walmart is now under this same anti-LGBTQ hateful pressure and it looks like they hopefully will not retreat like Target.

Other sad news I have been recently frequently reading about is the cancellation of various planned events featuring drag queens because of violent threats. In some state legislatures, politicians are attempting to outlaw drag performances while doing nothing to address our national pandemic of thousands of citizens dying due to gun violence.

This news disgusts me and demands a call to action.

First, these hateful bigots who accost store employees over Walmart’s or Target’s merchandise should be arrested for assault. If someone does not like certain merchandise, they don’t need to buy it or they can choose to patronize another store.

Second, LGBTQ people and allies should support WalMart for carrying the Pride merchandise, patronize the store, and thank Walmart employees and managers for carrying this merchandise.

Republicans in the North Carolina legislature are proposing laws to outlaw public drag queen performances

Third, people need to outwardly condemn all forms of anti-queer hate and bigotry. That includes not voting nor supporting any political candidate who backs or supports any of the slew of anti-LGBTQ legislation currently working its way through many state legislatures.

Major corporations also need to take a stand and strongly condemn all forms of LGBTQ+ hate and oppression. You cannot claim to be ally of the LGBTQ community if you either support these hateful political leaders or fail to speak out to condemn anti-LGBTQ oppression. Silence in these matters make you complicit in this nastiness.

March 31: Transgender Day of Visibility and the last day of Women’s History Month

This third blog, written by my new consultant Deanna Jones, examines the end of March as the intersection of the Transgender Day of Visibility and Women’s History Month. Deanna is available to speak or consult with your organization around transgender diversity and transitioning in the workplace.

As we come to the last week of Women’s History Month, I am reminded of how many contributions have been made by a very diverse population of women. However, throughout this history, there has always been a struggle for marginalized women to be recognized. Women such as Marie Louise Bottineau who was Native American. Sojourner Truth and Harriet Tubman (see my previous blog) who were Black women, and also key icons of history who fought for women’s rights.

There has been queer representation as well. Maud Wood Park, a queer woman served as the first President for the League of Women voters which was formed in anticipation of the passage of the 19th Amendment to help millions of women carry out their newfound right as voters. All of these women are activists who refused to be ignored and deserve to be celebrated as much as Elizabeth Cady Stanton.

Recently, Transwomen have been struggling for recognition within the struggle for women’s rights. This is another uphill battle for marginalized groups that is being met with intense backlash. Trans Exclusionary Radical Feminist (TERF) is a group that has sprung up recently and appropriated feminist theory to state that Transwomen are not women and should be excluded. This movement is reminiscent of a past that failed to acknowledge the diversity of woman fighting for freedom. These marginalized groups have been typically denied their rightful place in history as women’s rights advocates.

We need to continue to preserve and amplify the struggles and successes of all women in our fight for rights. We cannot repeat the same errors as we did in the past and exclude the contributions from women based upon aspects of their diversity. All women, Cisgender, Transgender and women of Color should be included. Let’s not repeat the past marginalizing groups of women because they have their own individual differences. Our bodies shouldn’t define who we are. Womanhood is complex, nuanced, layered, and doesn’t require extrinsic validation from men—or other women.

Marsha Johnson, the Black trans activist who fought at the Stonewall Rebellion, wasn’t just advocating for Transgender rights; she was a woman advocating for the same basic rights as so many activists before them .. the right to be seen, heard and acknowledged. They are also part of the struggle. I think Audre Lorde, a black lesbian poet said it best when she stated, “I am not free while any woman is unfree, even when her shackles are very different from our own.”

On March 31, the Transgender Day of Visibility, we should understand that the rights of all women, especially in the face of the pushback against the right to autonomy of our own bodies, is paramount to all of our struggles. Instead of finding differences, let’s work together with our allies to achieve equality for everyone.