“Power Breakfast” with North Carolina Governor Roy Cooper – Part 1 of 2

North Carolina Governor Roy Cooper speaking at the April 6th Triangle Business Journal “Power Breakfast.” (PHOTO: Triangle Business Journal)

The Triangle Business Journal, the very well-read and respected business weekly newspaper for the Raleigh / Durham / Chapel Hill area of North Carolina, holds a quarterly “Power Breakfast” featuring an area senior leader with a few hundred local business leaders. The Spring 2017 breakfast held April 6, 2017 featured the newly elected NC Governor Roy Cooper. Governor Cooper is quite unique as he was the first challenger to defeat a sitting governor in our state since 1850!

One of the major issues in our state which helped lead to Governor Cooper’s election was the unpopular HB2 law passed last Spring (see my latest blog on HB2) which dictated the bathroom transgender people needed to use in public venues, curtailed the ability of cities and counties to pass their own non-discrimination ordinances, and more. Accordingly, this ongoing issue was a major part of the April 6th breakfast discussion.

Since I am a diversity and career development consultant with a deep expertise in the LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender) workplace and marketplace, Part 1 will overview all of Governor Cooper’s remarks, and Part 2, coming next week, will be a much deeper dive into the overall diversity and LGBT components of the breakfast.

It is important to note that this meeting was not for the LGBT community, but for general business leaders. Therefore it was quite remarkable that within 30 seconds of taking the stage, Governor Cooper stated that he loves his state of North Carolina with its diverse mix of people of different genders, races and sexual orientations; that diversity is all over our state, and “that we need to encourage diversity at every step.” Look for an expansion of this theme in part 2.

Popular NC State Attorney General Roy Cooper was the first candidate to defeat a sitting Governor in NC since 1850! (PHOTO: Citizen Times)

Key points from our Governor:

• My goal is to see North Carolina better educated, healthier, with more money in people’s pockets with them living a more abundant and purposeful life.

• In terms of economic development, we need to attract better paying jobs to North Carolina, pay attention to the businesses that are already here, and remember that small businesses are a major economic engine.

• Education has to be a key initiative in North Carolina – my goal is for NC to be one of the “Top 10 best educated states.” Building our education system is certainly a common ground issue that all legislators can agree on. Education goals:
1. Participation in pre-kindergarten education increased from 22% to 55%
2. High school graduation rate increased from the low 80% to 90s
3. More people with advanced degrees from 38% to 55%

• We can make people healthier by taking advantage of the federal funding provided for health care.

• We have cut taxes enough; it is now time to invest in our state as well as run things more effectively and efficiently. (Side note from Stan – I am sure our new state Secretary of Administration Machelle Sanders (link) will see to that!)

• We have to keep in mind that we are competing in a global economy (not just with bordering South Carolina.)

• Art and music are important elements for the quality of life in North Carolina, including attracting leading businesses to our state.

This is certainly an enlightened agenda to positively impact the lives of all North Carolinians.

More next week on diversity, the LGBT community and HB2!

Adult Figure Skaters – Inspirational Stories of “Getting Up” after Illness and Injury (Part 2)

Christy Hayes got up and back on the ice after a life-threatening head injury. Now she skates with a stylish protective headband.

See links to the January – March issues of my “Get Up” Blog at the bottom of this one.

I continue my monthly blog series based on US Figure Skating’s popular “Get Up” campaign which continues to share the message that life, like the ice, is hard, and we can certainly fall on it. But the more times we get up and persevere, the stronger we become.

Often, falls for adult skaters can be more catastrophic than for young children who seem to quickly bounce off the ice and skate on after a fall. So it takes extra strength and courage for an older skater to get back out there on the ice.

When I was soliciting examples of adult skaters getting up after a fall or illness, I got so many, I need to save some for part 2, so here we go!

Christy Hayes writes: I had an unwitnessed fall three days before testing bronze moves. Two kids found me in a pool of blood and thought I was dead. I woke up hours later in the ICU, lost four days of memories, and was off the ice for six weeks. I had to take several deep breaths and talk myself in to stepping back on. I’m the one you see wearing a protective headband out there. I “got up”, rescheduled, tested and passed bronze moves nine months later!

From Laurie Krueger: My story begins with a love of skating from the time I was a toddler with informal skating on frozen ponds. But then as an adult, I started to take lessons, moving up through the various levels pretty quickly. My final competition was USFSA Adult Nationals in Lake Placid in 2000. However, knee injuries upon knee injuries began to sideline me with NINE meniscus surgeries (6 and 3 on left and right knees) over the next few years and then finally….the big kahuna. A knee replacement at age 55 which sadly ended my competitive skating career. No more jumping as this was my jumping leg. And two years later, the other knee followed. On top of that, a lifetime of a genetically deformed spine caused me to have a spinal fusion, further reducing my range of motion. I thought my skating days were over.

My husband and I retired from our NY jobs and moved to SW Florida where I thought I would be riding bikes, swimming and playing pickle ball. But I was depressed. Very depressed. But as luck would have it, although it’s Florida, there was a skating rink a mile from my house. Little by little, the rink drew me back in. I “got up” and started just going once a week “for fun”, but last summer finally broke down and joined the Everblades Figure Skating Club and just participated in their Christmas Show this year and now planning on my first competition in 17 years in February. No, I cannot do what I once did, but that’s ok. I have just turned 60 years old, and to be able to do a show or a Showcase competition number….well, I’m over the moon! I plan to still be doing this at 70, and if I’m lucky, at 80! This grandma of 4 is happy again to be on the ice!

Michelle Daichman was reminded by her Facebook Memories that 9 years ago she going in for her my third knee surgery. She writes: My doctor made no guarantee that I’d be able to skate again. But I love that I “got up” and proved him wrong, and get to do so every day. This is my “get up story” – never underestimate!

From Aimée Ricca: I shattered my right ankle last January while practicing 3-turns. I now have a titanium plate 8 screws and 2 pins, along with something called RSD/CRPS (a rare nerve disease). I spent 2 months not being able to walk at all, another month in a boot, and then finally the challenge of learning how to walk again! But I “got up” and returned to the ice 1 May of last year and used skating as part of my rehab.

In December, I performed in my arena’s holiday show. Then, I performed the same basic program for a local competition and was award gold. I began jumping in January and was able to compete at Adult Eastern Sectionals with only having waltz jumps in my Pre-Bronze Free Skate, I placed 6th out of 7, which I say isn’t bad for only having waltz jumps! I competed at my club’s big event, the Morris Open, this past weekend and got the silver medal (full disclosure, there were only 3 competitors). I am now working on adding my toe loop and salchow. It’s a challenge every day because every day is different with an injury! My range of motion isn’t what it used to be and the pain waxes and wanes. I will keep getting up though!

And from Karen Burgner: I competed and medaled at my first nationals in 2012… after falling during my light entertainment program, getting up and finishing to take the silver. Later that same year, I suffered a spinal cord accident after two of my kids jumped on me. After emergency surgery and months of therapy I learned to walk again… and skate again, and got up and returned to national competition in 2015 – and I took silver in bronze 2 ladies free skate at nationals last year!

I hope these stories inspire you that even with bad falls, injuries, and illness, our love of skating can spur us on to “get up” and back on the ice, even if the rehabilitation period is several months.

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Earlier “get up” blogs:

January: Introduction to the “Get Up” theme with figure skating examples

February: Stories of Adult Figure Skaters “Getting Up” After Illness and Injury, part 1

March: Getting Up after Career and Vocation Falls. Read these four short inspiration stories of how these people “got up” to move on after falls and troubles in their vocational lives.

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